There are different types of pen writing. That’s why you must teach your children how to write from pen holding styles, whether they are left handed or right handed. So they won’t have any writing problems as they grow older. But did you know that your pen holding style has meaning? Well, this article will explain to you what they mean.

1. Handle between index and middle finger

What does this say about you

Sociability is your middle name—no, even your first! You love meeting new people who, for some reason, are not yet familiar to you. Throw you on a desert island on Jupiter, and you will return with a couple of million bosom buddies. You like it when crowds swarm, scurry, and cluster around you (even if you are not a popular singer or a National Guard member at an unauthorized rally).

At the same time, you value freedom. You need personal space where you can dive at any time, away from the masses, indulge in dreams, and breathe freely.

For all your sociability, you are a calm and peaceful person. You prefer unambiguous love to romances with shedding oceans of tears and boiling tons of passions. Breaking hearts—brrr, excuse me, this is not for you. You easily understand and forgive your partner because relationships are more important to you than ego.

What do others think about you

They consider you to be a creative, intelligent, and emotional person, but perhaps too sensitive and, therefore, slightly anxious and prone to worry about trifles. The intelligence and adventurous spirit they see in you are the envy of them. Oh, they wish they could be as calm and smart as you! And at least a little bit as good at understanding people as you are.

2. Handle between thumb and index finger

What does this say about you

Your photo should be published in all encyclopedias to illustrate the word “honesty.” Frankly, you also noticed this quality in yourself and are proud of it. 

Your insight is smart enough to determine what will be good for you and bad. By doing this or that, you figure out what others will think of you, and choose a modus operandi that will not bring you down in their eyes or upset you. You are also curious and vulnerable.

When you fall in love, you often hide your feelings (the sponsor of this behavior is your shyness). You are not an egoist, and you expect a symmetrical answer from the lady of your heart. And, as a rule, you get it.

What do people around you think about you?

Your sensitivity and curiosity do not hide from the eyes of those looking at you. These eyes also believe that you are generous and energetic, you have a rich imagination and intuition, and you can be quite impatient. People around you willingly laugh at your jokes, even if it’s a bearded joke about a pastor and a courtesan: for some reason they think that you have a wow sense of humor!

3. Thumb over index finger

What does this say about you

Your dreaminess is enough for a regiment of romantics with their head in the clouds and there will still be some left. Next to your expectations from life, Mont Blanc is a timid hillock. 

You absolutely need to always have someone nearby who, day and night, even if you are sleeping, sitting in a dentist’s chair or steering a submarine, will tell you how wonderful, wonderful and unique you are, how everyone loves you. everyone, including janitors, traffic cops and Martians!

You think too much about everything in the world; sometimes it’s to the point, but most often it’s not (we’re sure we’re not the first, or even the billionth, to tell you this). 

Self-doubt has entrenched itself in your soul, built a reinforced concrete nest there and hatched chicks, so that – thanks to it – you are able to perceive the slightest remark about yourself as reproach and condemnation and shed buckets of bloody tears. Although the author of the remark had nothing in mind!

Being in love, you are terrible – for yourself, first of all. And your penchant for far-fetchedness snatches the reins from you and carries you where Cupid Psyche did not go. 

On the one hand, you desperately need your love to be yours, only yours and no one else’s but yours, from your heels to Alaska, in any, even the most misunderstood, situations. 

On the other hand, the fear of truly getting close to someone binds you tighter than a persimmon: of course, suddenly you get close to someone, and this dear soul just tell you that green doesn’t suit you. 

And that’s it, there’s a wound in the heart the size of a hole in the national budget! It is not surprising that you often try to look cooler, harsher and more impudent than you are, so that no one imagines that you are begging for love, tenderness and attention.

What do others think about you

The manner of holding a pen in such a rare way secured a place for you and your one-handed friends in the Red Book. People transfer the originality of this manner to you and endow you with such qualities as talent and creativity. 

Even your penchant for self-examination and vulnerability cannot undermine your friendliness, so your gift for making friends easily is the envy of everyone. And those who don’t know you see you as an intelligent and confident individual, a born leader.

It turns out that most of the work has been done: have others formed the right opinion about you? Then it’s a small matter – just be what they think you are!